Someone648 Posted October 2 Share Posted October 2 Just be mindful not to harass anyone accused of anything, too. Obviously show ALL the support you can to the victim and (logically) don’t support the abuser… but because it is just an allegation, don’t potentially put yourself in the line of fire. aka just don’t do something that could get yourself or the forum in trouble, y’all. not that it’s comforting at all, but this dude won’t make it too far anyways 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
istersay Posted October 2 Share Posted October 2 41 minutes ago, Someone648 said: Just be mindful not to harass anyone accused of anything, too. Obviously show ALL the support you can to the victim and (logically) don’t support the abuser… but because it is just an allegation, don’t potentially put yourself in the line of fire. aka just don’t do something that could get yourself or the forum in trouble, y’all. Reveal hidden contents not that it’s comforting at all, but this dude won’t make it too far anyways I agree on not harrassing anyone we have heard one side,and as far as having it posted in here it's so people have the info and can make their own decisions on supporting some of contestants or not. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wim Posted October 2 Share Posted October 2 I don't know any facts and don't intend to read reddit (I don't), but is it correct that this is based on anonymous posts? While I have no interest in questioning victims, I have to ask how anyone knows it's not a troll post. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anybody354 Posted October 2 Share Posted October 2 1 hour ago, TeamAudra said: I’m not telling anyone else how to feel about it. I just noticed enough things to stop myself from joining in accusing someone I know nothing about of rape. After rereading my post I edited it a bit. There’s no guarantee the Reddit post is true, but it def concerns me. My heart goes out to all those impacted by sexual and gender-based violence. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenKalie Posted October 2 Share Posted October 2 29 minutes ago, Wim said: I don't know any facts and don't intend to read reddit (I don't), but is it correct that this is based on anonymous posts? While I have no interest in questioning victims, I have to ask how anyone knows it's not a troll post. I read the post they clearly weren't trolling. But whether someone wants to believe the word of someone else on Reddit is entirely up to them. People can do what they want in that regard but be careful either way. You don't really want to attack someone based off of just a social media post on Reddit but you also don't want to defend another Diddy because there's certainly going to be a lot of blowback on the people that defended him and enabled him to do all the bad stuff that he is accused of. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TeamAudra Posted October 2 Share Posted October 2 14 minutes ago, Anybody354 said: After rereading my post I edited it a bit. There’s no guarantee the Reddit post is true, but it def concerns me. My heart goes out to all those impacted by sexual and gender-based violence. Yeah, I’m just not comfortable touching this one, or even listing the reasons. It’s an anonymous post on the internet, and I’ll leave it at that. I hope it’s not true. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wim Posted October 2 Share Posted October 2 56 minutes ago, QueenKalie said: I read the post they clearly weren't trolling. But whether someone wants to believe the word of someone else on Reddit is entirely up to them. People can do what they want in that regard but be careful either way. You don't really want to attack someone based off of just a social media post on Reddit but you also don't want to defend another Diddy because there's certainly going to be a lot of blowback on the people that defended him and enabled him to do all the bad stuff that he is accused of. I don't have any interest in attacking or defending. I have no facts, just anonymous posts. With all the misinformation and outright lies on social media, I jettisoned all my accounts other than this one. If you can reliably spot the lies and misinformation, you're a lot better at it than I could ever be. If the posts are true, I hope the person finds help, and the wrongdoer is held accountable. If they're not, it's yet another internet troll and I hope they don't cause needless harm. I have no basis to make a judgment. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rodney Posted October 7 Share Posted October 7 On 10/1/2024 at 7:49 PM, Anybody354 said: Yeah I think this needs to be emphasized. No question some of Asher’s actions have been sh*tty, but they don’t in any way compare to the alleged actions of NOIVAS’s or Mor’s. Why? What's Asher done? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anybody354 Posted October 7 Share Posted October 7 21 minutes ago, Rodney said: Why? What's Asher done? Tldr, Alyssa Crosby booked him to perform with her and he cancelled without telling her. Also didn’t initially pay a makeup artist and per one other contestant was initially friendly and then started talking sh*t behind her back. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rodney Posted October 7 Share Posted October 7 11 hours ago, Anybody354 said: Tldr, Alyssa Crosby booked him to perform with her and he cancelled without telling her. Also didn’t initially pay a makeup artist and per one other contestant was initially friendly and then started talking sh*t behind her back. Granted, those don't sound very nice at all. But they're far from the heinous acts of NOIVAS and Mor, so those won't stop my liking for Asher. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anybody354 Posted October 7 Share Posted October 7 (edited) 12 minutes ago, Rodney said: Granted, those don't sound very nice at all. But they're far from the heinous acts of NOIVAS and Mor, so those won't stop my liking for Asher. I agree they’re not as heinous. I surely like his music but he’s gotta fix his attitude if he doesn’t wanna lose followers, that’s all I’m gonna say Edited October 7 by Anybody354 clarificatiom Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AngelaKD Posted October 7 Share Posted October 7 11 hours ago, Anybody354 said: Tldr, Alyssa Crosby booked him to perform with her and he cancelled without telling her. Also didn’t initially pay a makeup artist and per one other contestant was initially friendly and then started talking sh*t behind her back. Asher posted on IG when his flight to Alyssa’s event was cancelled. He seemed really upset at the time. I can’t remember if it was weather related or just the airline being unreliable. Sounds like a miscommunication. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenKalie Posted October 7 Share Posted October 7 10 minutes ago, AngelaKD said: Asher posted on IG when his flight to Alyssa’s event was cancelled. He seemed really upset at the time. I can’t remember if it was weather related or just the airline being unreliable. Sounds like a miscommunication. Tell me you didn't watch all the videos without telling me you didn't watch the videos. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AngelaKD Posted October 7 Share Posted October 7 34 minutes ago, QueenKalie said: Tell me you didn't watch all the videos without telling me you didn't watch the videos. I didn't watch anything. I just happened to look at Asher’s IG the day of Alyssa’s event (which he had been promoting) and I remember that he posted that he missed it due to an issue with his flight. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
QueenKalie Posted October 7 Share Posted October 7 2 minutes ago, AngelaKD said: I didn't watch anything. I'm aware. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FloorWax Posted October 7 Share Posted October 7 4 minutes ago, AngelaKD said: I didn't watch anything. I just happened to look at Asher’s IG the day of Alyssa’s event (which he had been promoting) and I remember that he posted that he missed it due to an issue with his flight. Could also potentially be a coverup. Alyssa said in the video that Asher told her the same thing even though no flights were cancelled when she checked it online. Apparently she and her cousin even offered to book him another flight and pay for it out of pocket, after which he proceeded to ghost her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AliXRose Posted October 7 Share Posted October 7 6 minutes ago, AngelaKD said: I didn't watch anything. I just happened to look at Asher’s IG the day of Alyssa’s event (which he had been promoting) and I remember that he posted that he missed it due to an issue with his flight. I believe they checked the flight and everything was fine, she just never bothered to take that plane and flaked on them. He’s a liar. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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