the official talk about your crush thread, girls & boys ; both welcomed ! Options

[taylorfan]

edit; omg i think he CAN read me [:
mmh told him i liked him, guess i needa wait for an answer

This post has been edited by taylorfan: Feb 26th 2007, 5:35 PM

[neleah]

my crush is really confusing + he can't rly read me .

Well, obviously not if you talk like THAT...

[*Kiki*]

My crush is wonderful. He's the only guy, I really can talk with. He's so different, than other guys. We are really good friends, but I don't think he likes me in that way. Even though my friends say he does.

[dAnCiNgQuEeN129]

my crush? oh boy. lol. his name is Matt. I met him last year and hes in honors classes so i only have a-block with him (its like a study hall type thing...) and i have music with him. everyone thinks he likes me, and im kind of convinced that he likes me too, but eh idk. hes kind of a jerk but in a "hey im cute and funny and i love you" kind of way. like he makes fun of me all the time, but hes so flirty when he does it. and i do it back. so i guess its something. lol. im like secretly obsessed with him but so many people think i hate him. i actually told him once i don't like you. and i didnt, at the time, but i think he's always liked me. so now people are saying "maybe he likes you but won't do anything because he thinks you guys are supposed to hate eachother" and taht so opened my eyes. so im gonna be nice to him, and let him know that i dont hate him. he's so adorable. he has the most beautiful eyes ever. they're green with like specks of brown in them. and they always sparkle and he has a really nice smile ahh i like him so mich and i dont know if he likes me back. should i tell him how i feel? people say he likes me, but idk. supposebly hes always going "oh you're just like stacey. you're so fun to bother, just like her" randomly. does that mean something? like im not even in the room and he supposebly says that... i'll stop talking now

[taylorfan]

Well, obviously not if you talk like THAT...

This post has been edited by taylorfan: Feb 26th 2007, 5:34 PM

[Clays_A_NaturalAphrodisiac]

I get to see mine Friday and Saturday!

[i_love_hedley]

Uh-oh.

So I used to really like this one guy at work...he was basically the only thing on my mind for a good 4 months. We've become really good friends at work over that time. January was my "getting over liking him" month. Liking him was such a rollercoaster of emotions and I honestly couldn't handle it, I told myself to stop liking him, because obviosly after 4 months he wasn't going to *magically* get feelings for me, right?

Well February has been a good month for us so far. I've been really enjoying being his friend, and I mean it's all I think of him as now. But then this past week I've been (and so have afew others) getting this strange feeling he just might like me as more then a friend. He's called me 4 times this week for almost no reason and he's NEVER called me before for anything. Then there was this dinner for a manager at work who was leaving and he has bugging me all week to go (but I couldn't cuz I had practice), he gave up his shift for work, and sounded extremly upset when I told him for the fifth time I wasn't going. There were a few other times too he asked me to hang out but I've had excuses He's just been acting really strange around me too

I mean maybe he doesn't like me as more then a friend. But I mean there are a million other girls at work and he doesn't act like this around any of them.

I know this was really long...and maybe not exactly about my crush but I had to post it somewhere



Oh wait...

Maybe this is what I should ask. See I have this thing. I am terrified of relationships, I've never had aboyfriend and I'm 19. I've never even really had a guy friend. I've been fighting this battle with myself where I do things even if I'm scared. The first time I hung out with him alone (the time I liked him) I was terrified but I did it. Don't know what happened but we didn't hang out again, still kept talking and we were friends at work. See when I say I'm "over" liking him I'm not sure if its myself being scared because we are getting closer. I'm just really confused.

Now that I think he likes me I just want him to leave me alone...I wouldn't ever sya this to him, but I just want him to back off.



If you read this and understood it thanks I know it's confusing because I'm confused...

[outacontrol]

Uh-oh.

So I used to really like this one guy at work...he was basically the only thing on my mind for a good 4 months. We've become really good friends at work over that time. January was my "getting over liking him" month. Liking him was such a rollercoaster of emotions and I honestly couldn't handle it, I told myself to stop liking him, because obviosly after 4 months he wasn't going to *magically* get feelings for me, right?

Well February has been a good month for us so far. I've been really enjoying being his friend, and I mean it's all I think of him as now. But then this past week I've been (and so have afew others) getting this strange feeling he just might like me as more then a friend. He's called me 4 times this week for almost no reason and he's NEVER called me before for anything. Then there was this dinner for a manager at work who was leaving and he has bugging me all week to go (but I couldn't cuz I had practice), he gave up his shift for work, and sounded extremly upset when I told him for the fifth time I wasn't going. There were a few other times too he asked me to hang out but I've had excuses He's just been acting really strange around me too

I mean maybe he doesn't like me as more then a friend. But I mean there are a million other girls at work and he doesn't act like this around any of them.

I know this was really long...and maybe not exactly about my crush but I had to post it somewhere
Oh wait...

Maybe this is what I should ask. See I have this thing. I am terrified of relationships, I've never had aboyfriend and I'm 19. I've never even really had a guy friend. I've been fighting this battle with myself where I do things even if I'm scared. The first time I hung out with him alone (the time I liked him) I was terrified but I did it. Don't know what happened but we didn't hang out again, still kept talking and we were friends at work. See when I say I'm "over" liking him I'm not sure if its myself being scared because we are getting closer. I'm just really confused.

Now that I think he likes me I just want him to leave me alone...I wouldn't ever sya this to him, but I just want him to back off.



If you read this and understood it thanks I know it's confusing because I'm confused...

Ive been in sort of the same situation as you.. I was afraid to get closer to this guy (who is now my boyfriend) because i was afraid that I would get hurt. It took a while.. well actually a really long time to get over that. It actually took me being with someone else that made me realize that i actually loved him.
I think you need to take some time to think about your feelings before you deal with him. If you like him and youre afraid to, seriously know it is worth a risk. And if you just like him as a friend, and you feel you have to like him, dont make yourself. Because that would be lieing to him and you.
It takes time but you never know until you try .

[i<3anthony]

one of my crushes [i have like 4 lol, but the one i like the most ] is 4 years older than me and my parents dont like him. hes my neighbor and we've grown up together but hes done a lot of bad things in the past that my parents know about and they just dont think hes a good person. and me and him used to not get along growing up lol, but we started talking online last year and now we talk like everyday and sometimes we hang out, along with our other neighbors. i truly believe hes changed and hes making something of his life now, but i know my parents wouldnt think that so they dont know that i like him. oh and he likes someone else, whos 2 years older than me so they're closer in age.
hmmm not a lot of things going for us.

[i_love_hedley]

Ive been in sort of the same situation as you.. I was afraid to get closer to this guy (who is now my boyfriend) because i was afraid that I would get hurt. It took a while.. well actually a really long time to get over that. It actually took me being with someone else that made me realize that i actually loved him.
I think you need to take some time to think about your feelings before you deal with him. If you like him and youre afraid to, seriously know it is worth a risk. And if you just like him as a friend, and you feel you have to like him, dont make yourself. Because that would be lieing to him and you.
It takes time but you never know until you try .

I know i've been thinking about it alot over the past few days, and it's really hard I don't remember why I stopped liking him either.

He hasn't asked me out yet, but I don't know what to say if he does, when the time comes. I want to figure it out before he tells me any of his feelings(assuming he likes me). I do want to hang out with him more outside of work, just as friends, because I think I'll get a better understanding of my feelings towards him. He has been hinting/asking me to hang out with him (and did again today) but I'm not sure if he means as friends or as more; I've been really busy this week so it hasn't worked out (ok I made up an excuse once)...I'm just terrified to even JUST hang out with him. I want to figure out how I feel about him, and the only way I think it's possible is if I hang out with him

I will make myself do it though...i have to.

And thanks so much for your help

[I Love Jesse xOx]

okay, so i like this guy.
and he's a junior (im a sophomore)
and i thought i liked him, but i didnt realize it until I was at my friends house with him and her.

and he was like, holding her hand and he kept trying to kiss her. and i was getting so pissed off. lol.
and then my other friends boyfriend, who i dont get along with AT ALL, kept calling my cellphone. and the kid i like took my phone from me and like started flipping out on him. and it was cute lol.

but i see him everyday because he goes to my friends locker (the one that we were at her house) and he always laughs at me because he thinks i dont talk.

....but if he ever got to know me he would probably wish i would shut up. lol.


anyways =) =D

[~ShiningStar~]

my crush is one year younger than me and I hate him! He is going out with my ex best friend. I dont know why I always feel in-love with him. I wiish i wasnt but I cant help myself. deep down inside I love him but am just mad at him for going out with her.....

[Courtney <3]

he's amazing he's one of my best friends, and he's so cute and hilarious and ahh we have so much fun together


and he has NO idea i like him. and if he does, i dont know it

[DJ LF]

Well, obviously not if you talk like THAT...

I love you.

[HipHipCa-lay]

we did this thing where we sorta told each other that we like each other... but we were either both serious or both joking.. I couldn't tell which. I don't think he could either.

[*~GymQT~*]

ahh theres this guy that i like and i really dont know why... he is pretty much the epitome of a manslut, he's not even that cute, and he smokes pot .. but for some reason i still like him so much.. and he likes another girl but i still want him *sigh*

[_-MysticWaters-_]

Ahh so I posted earlier in this thread about a guy that's tutoring me, but he's really...out there I guess that's the only way I can put it, he's just really weird so I don't like him. But now the problem is that I like a guy who's one and a half years older than me and he's my best friend's brother Don't know how this works out at all but I just think that he's really sweet and he's amazing. Kind of dorky at some points but that's alright, I mean who isn't?

[Claire]

Ahh, let's see, what could I say about my crush? Well, first of all, he is soo weird, but that's why I like him. He's such a unique guy. He has a great sense of humor, and always has me laughing. I'm really comfortable around him, and that's unusual for me since I'm normally really shy around guys. But I don't have any problems whatsoever talking to him.

There's a problem, though. This guy is my TA (teaching assistant) for my science class. So even though he's the same age as me, he's sort of like a teacher. I really don't know what to do. I feel guilty liking him so much, since I probably shouldn't, but I just can't stop thinking about him. I keep thinking that maybe once this semester's over and he's not my TA anymore, I could have a chance. Someone please tell me I'm not crazy for feeling this way!!!

This post has been edited by Jordan&AJFan: Mar 29th 2007, 3:48 PM

[Eruantale]

He's 2 years younger than me.
He always makes me laugh.
He has a mohawk (or a fohawk I guess) It's damn cute.
He plays football (I dislike that sport)
He's my concert buddy.

Damn, it's been less than 24 hours and I can't stand it already. I miss him

Wow. I'm using way too many emoticons lmao

[Fridays_childV2]

my crush? oh... i suppose this is the right place.... i thought he was a nice friend but now i dont think he's worth it. i screwed up in the process and now he hates me (well, looks and acts like he does anyway)