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post Aug 18th 2014, 5:58 PM
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I am in no way an admin, nor do I work for this website in anyway, but I would just like to point a few things out because..what the hell? I am able to make a topic and express my feelings.

I joined IDF when I was 11 to talk about how much I wanted to french kiss all the boys on American Juniors. Now-- a few years later, I am still posting from time to time to keep up with the friends I have made here-- which I am sure is the reason a lot of you still post as well.

I have made friends here that I will have for a lifetime. I have found a best friend, a few girls I tell everything to, and a family that has been here for me during my darkest times. And for all this I am so grateful.

But I do not feel as though this is a fun, happy, or safe environment anymore, to be frank. Let me explain to some of you who do not particularly understand this..

The Vent Thread is where people are supposed to feel safe expressing their issues. It is not a place to tell somebody how they are to live their own lives.
The Awkward Question thread is where people post questions about awkward situations they may be experiencing, that could be too embarrassing to ask people to their face. It is not a place to make fun of already heavy and emotional topics, when someone is in a state of vulnerability.
The Crush Thread is a thread to talk about people we may like, or maybe the issues surrounding our feelings towards others and then asking for advice. It is not a place to poke fun at somebody for their choices.
The SEX Thread is somewhere for people to come to and post about their sexual experiences, fetishes and dislikes. These things vary (very much so) from person to person. It is not a place to make fun, or roll eyes at someone else's likes.

Why does every thread have to be turned into a huge kick in the balls? What has IDF turned into? A place where others turn to poke fun at others because maybe their life isn't going so grand? No- what kind of world is everyone living in? Because I was raised to lift other people up-- not bring them down. You don't help out others by making fun of them, putting them down, judging how they live their lives. It's not right. And, honestly, I'm sick of logging on to a website where other people think it is okay to do so- just because you are behind a computer screen.

It tears my heart apart to see hurtful comments to my friends, and users that I only know from lurking the forum. One day this website will not exist, but all of the people that post here- we are all human beings. We have lives, hearts, brains, FEELINGS. Why don't we all keep this in mind when posting/responding to others. Of course everybody has the right to their own opinion-- but you don't really have the right to harass others.

Hoping for a more positive environment. heart.gif


(Just waiting for the "SHE DOESN'T EVEN POST HERE" comment-- beat you to it)

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post Aug 18th 2014, 5:59 PM
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post Aug 18th 2014, 6:00 PM
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QUOTE(juniorfan4eva @ Aug 18th 2014, 6:59 PM) *

I love you for making this

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post Aug 18th 2014, 6:05 PM
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post Aug 18th 2014, 6:12 PM
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post Aug 18th 2014, 6:14 PM
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Like BRUH some things are so hard to talk about and people making rude insensitive comments just make you feel worse it's not cool


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post Aug 18th 2014, 6:29 PM
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agree, dont post in all those threads but if I do I try and help if I can


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post Aug 18th 2014, 6:33 PM
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post Aug 18th 2014, 6:44 PM
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IF YOU HAVE NOTHING NICE TO SAY DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL innocent.gif


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post Aug 18th 2014, 6:56 PM
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Idk what's happening in the other threads nowadays except the SEX thread haha.gif I must have missed something since there must be something going on in every thread. haha.gif


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post Aug 18th 2014, 7:26 PM
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post Aug 18th 2014, 8:00 PM
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thumbsup.gif wish there was a 'like' button. I don't post much but agreed 100%


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post Aug 18th 2014, 8:54 PM
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Thank you for posting this, I agree with everything you said! huggy.gif


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post Aug 18th 2014, 11:52 PM
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I agree with everything you've said. yes.gif

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post Aug 19th 2014, 8:38 AM
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post Aug 19th 2014, 8:42 AM
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I am glad you guys agree! huggy.gif

QUOTE(Jen @ Aug 18th 2014, 7:12 PM) *

THANK YOU for posting what I've been thinking about certain topics.....

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Amen and goonies say never die. clap.gif thumbup.gif

Down here, it's our time. It's our time down here. That's all over the second we ride up Troy's bucket.

QUOTE(brownies @ Aug 18th 2014, 7:56 PM) *

Idk what's happening in the other threads nowadays except the SEX thread haha.gif I must have missed something since there must be something going on in every thread. haha.gif

roll2.gif you only come for the SEX thread? roll2.gif good for you! haha.gif heart.gif


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post Aug 19th 2014, 12:18 PM
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QUOTE(Drew @ Aug 19th 2014, 12:52 AM) *

I agree with everything you've said. yes.gif

I'm glad that you agree.

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post Aug 19th 2014, 4:47 PM
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I haven't been so active lately either but.. heart.gif


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post Aug 19th 2014, 5:25 PM
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I haven't really seen this negativity so I hope I'm not a part of it... I'm not here much anymore though.


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post Aug 19th 2014, 7:14 PM
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QUOTE(noise @ Aug 19th 2014, 9:42 AM) *

roll2.gif you only come for the SEX thread? roll2.gif good for you! haha.gif heart.gif

You know it kiss.gif lmao.gif I check the other threads too but the SEX thread is my haven here haha.gif

Can you also add that people should post on the right thread? Like sometimes there are topics that are not relevant to the point of the thread (or should be in the other topic thread).


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