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post Oct 26th 2008, 2:53 PM
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post Oct 26th 2008, 4:51 PM
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what do people think is a reasonable age to lose yer virginity? you know, begin having sex?


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post Oct 26th 2008, 5:36 PM
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^Depends who you ask. Some people who are very conservative will tell you abstinance until marriage is the only way acceptable (that's the rule I was given...). Other than that, I'm not entirely sure.


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post Oct 26th 2008, 5:57 PM
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Well, my mom always told me that she wants me to wait until marriage, OR until I'm older
and have been dating someone for a really long time.

Unfortunately, people are having sex younger and younger these days.


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post Oct 26th 2008, 6:00 PM
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^ So true. Only fifteen out of ninety-eight people in my grade are still virgins. (anonymous survey I volunteered to do for health class...)


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post Oct 26th 2008, 6:13 PM
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QUOTE(Crazy4Connie @ Oct 26th 2008, 7:00 PM) *

^ So true. Only fifteen out of ninety-eight people in my grade are still virgins. (anonymous survey I volunteered to do for health class...)

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I know it's considered "cool" in my grade to have sex - but I'm SO proud to be a virgin.


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post Oct 26th 2008, 8:56 PM
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I know! Someone in my grade lost their virginity in the 6th grade aged 11 fear2.gif fear2.gif unsure.gif This is really sad that someone that young is sleeping around! I think a reasonable age is anyone over 18 who is mature enough to deal with the consequences if she would get pregnant or he gets her pregnant. Too many people these days are having sex without thinking what could happen if they got pregnant. Sure condoms are 98% safe, there's always that 1% chance. Sure it is easy to get an abortion but that will just kill an innocent child and will haunt you forever. It's very sad that I'm only 12 and few people older than me are waiting til they are married like me. I'm not religious I'm just against pre-maritial sex because of the possible consequences! In fact I'm making a thread now against abortion!


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post Oct 26th 2008, 9:47 PM
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Lose it. Being a virgin is overrated. tongue.gif


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^ Controversial statement of the night.
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post Oct 26th 2008, 9:50 PM
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QUOTE(jlca11889 @ Oct 26th 2008, 10:49 PM) *

^ Controversial statement of the night.
Curious to see how that one goes over. whistling.gif

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post Oct 26th 2008, 9:52 PM
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QUOTE(Zfan @ Oct 26th 2008, 7:47 PM) *

Lose it. Being a virgin is overrated. tongue.gif

Being a virgin is not overrated. kiss.gif


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post Oct 26th 2008, 10:01 PM
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Why can't people love virgins and nymphomaniacs ? I know I do. Nbd.


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post Oct 26th 2008, 10:05 PM
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QUOTE(TayTayFanForever @ Oct 26th 2008, 6:13 PM) *

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I know it's considered "cool" in my grade to have sex - but I'm SO proud to be a virgin.



This. yes.gif

It actually disgusts me how some people treat sex like its nothing.



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post Oct 26th 2008, 10:07 PM
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QUOTE(outacontrol @ Oct 26th 2008, 11:01 PM) *

Why can't people love virgins and nymphomaniacs ? I know I do. Nbd.

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Well, I'm still a virgin. I want it to mean something, but I'm not waiting until marriage. Most lose it around 16, at least the people I know, and I think that's fine. But most people that I talk to, say that sex isn't as big of a deal as it's made out to be, and I see their point more than I see the other side.


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QUOTE(Lehcar621 @ Oct 26th 2008, 8:05 PM) *

It actually disgusts me how some people treat sex like its nothing.


I know. pinch.gif

Anyway, I'm going to try my hardest to wait until marriage. I'm not really religious or anything, that's just my choice. Nobody told me to do that or anything.


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post Oct 26th 2008, 10:24 PM
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I'm 16 and i'm not a virgin. I lost my virginity when i was 15 and it wasn't like i gave it away for nothing. It did mean something to me and i'm glad i gave it away to the person that i did. I've been dating my boyfriend for over a year and a half now, and he means the world to me. That being said, i don't regret losing my virginity to him. It was an incredible experience and i'm glad i shared it with someone who i love with all my heart. heart.gif

I believe that if you love someone and trust them enough to have sex with them, go ahead, as long as you know what the possible consequences are. That being said, i would hope you're over the age of 14 or 15 before you start having sex, and that you don't have sex with every male that walks upon this Earth. wink.gif tongue.gif


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post Oct 26th 2008, 10:30 PM
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Just wanted to share my thoughts here.

I think we need to evaluate sex on a case by case basis. Different people mature at different ages. With that said, no one under the age of 16 should be having sex, I believe.

With me, I had my first real experience when I was 16 and in all honesty, I kind of regret it. I mean, at the time, it was fun (lol), but... the person wasn't the kind of person I'd want to give something like that away to. Fortunately, I didn't go all the way.

Long story short, I'm with someone I feel that I truly love right now, and when the moment is right, I can't wait. heart.gif


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QUOTE(Drew @ Oct 26th 2008, 10:30 PM) *

Just wanted to share my thoughts here.

I think we need to evaluate sex on a case by case basis. Different people mature at different ages. With that said, no one under the age of 16 should be having sex, I believe.

With me, I had my first real experience when I was 16 and in all honesty, I kind of regret it. I mean, at the time, it was fun (lol), but... the person wasn't the kind of person I'd want to give something like that away to. Fortunately, I didn't go all the way.

Long story short, I'm with someone I feel that I truly love right now, and when the moment is right, I can't wait. heart.gif


This post is most reasonable, I think.

For one, I'm not saying true love at a young age isn't possible. However, for the most part, people who are 14/15/16/17 whatever think they are in love, and they very well could be, but they treat sex too lightly and when they grow older, they often regret something they thought, at the time, was a good decision. This is one of the many reasons I detest all the negativity about regret. Some regret is good and sensible haha. My point is, people may think they're in love at a certain age and not regret their actions for the next 5 years, but then might regret what they did for the next 70.

I think it's most logical, and really special, to keep it within the restraints of marriage. It'll be something (intercourse anyways) that I share exclusively with my wife and I'm really looking forward to that. That said, I don't look down or think any less of someone who makes different lifestyle choices. That's just my two cents on the issue.

On the other hand, there are a lot of very hot, dirty things that go through every human beings head at any given time. I think to stifle all of them is just crazy. shifty.gif


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