It looks like two weeks ago RJ Helton posted about Nikki’s death and their relationship on fb. It’s very sweet.
“So, as you all know one of my dearest friends, Nikki McKibbin passed away this past October. I've not mentioned it or talked about it with anyone mostly because I'm not ready to admit that she's gone. It still hasn't hit me.
I met Nikki in the summer of 2002 while auditioning for American Idol. She came up to me and said, "Damn boy..you sure are pretty." And we became inseparable throughout the entire experience and for years to come. She was the first human I ever felt comfortable enough with to talk about my sexuality and It was her mission to be my matchmaker.
We developed and maintained the purest most honest friendship. She's who I called when I couldn't get out of bed. It's hard to believe I won't be able to pick up the phone and call her anymore.
Nikki Sadler you will forever be a part of me. Thank you for giving me strength when I couldn't find it for myself. I'll love you forever. Rest peacefully my sweet friend.”